None of it was a surprise because the occupational and physical therapists that did the evaluation were excellent at communicating every little detail to us. So we knew what to expect.
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| Our "Sneak Peek" from this weekend's photo shoot. |
And yet, when you are sitting across the table from a virtual stranger and everything is in front of you in black and white, well I don't think it is something you can be prepared for.
It took a minute to realize what the numbers meant. The standard deviations and numerical values that score the areas - social, adaptive, cognitive, gross and fine motor skills - were all a little jumbled until the case coordinator began explaining the data.
The good news is that Madeline is a smarty pants. But we already knew that. The bad news is she has a gross motor delay. We knew that, too.
According to the official Early Intervention report, Madeline's gross motor delay qualifies for one hour of physical therapy a week. She is automatically enrolled in the Early Intervention program for a year but we will reevaluate in six months.
There was talk of goals and objectives. I kept reiterating the point that we weren't worried that Madeline wasn't walking at one. And our goal isn't for her to walk. Our goal is to make sure she walks well, without a limp or any abnormality. Our goal is for her to run. To jump, skip, hop and play just like everyone else her age.

That is awesome that she is going to get the help that she needs!
ReplyDeleteY'all are such a blessing to that sweet little girl! She is so fortunate to have such supportive and positive parents! She'll get there, just on her own time, right?! :) And, that picture is simply beautiful of her! Love it! Thinking of y'all!
ReplyDeletegreat news! You will be chasing after her in no time!!
ReplyDeleteShe is a very lucky and beautiful little girl. I once read that "your child can not be ahead of or behind himself". This was when I was worried that my child wasn't reading well at age 6...imagine? He took his own sweet time and had no one to catch up to!
ReplyDeleteYou are so right - we need to give them credit because they always find a way. :) Good luck and I hope you see positive changes right away!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this post. My Quincy is delayed in her gross motor skills and it seems like not very many people are open about their children's delays, but will shout it from the roof top when they are even a day early on any milestone!
ReplyDeleteI'd appreciate hearing more about your journey with her. We have gone to PT with Quincy and she started walking at 14 1/2 months...we are so proud!!